Impact of losing the Spark in life and Tips to keep it alive

We all know that count of cases of marriage failures is increasing day by day. You cannot even imagine how rapidly it is increasing. The problem is people do not know how to keep the spark alive. They don't have even time to think about it. Be it gents or women, both of them are independent now even financially. Both of them are equally busy too. So, the probability of losing the spark and chemistry is so high in this hectic life.

Some people are smart enough in understanding things and they take enormous care to keep their wedding life smooth smartly. But some are missing their wedding boats. A tiny issue are leading to divorce also nowadays. If you have good spark and chemistry between you, both small and big issues cannot shake you anyways.

Breaking wedding life not only affects you. It also washes out the happiness of your parents and children lifelong. So, it is our responsibility to keep the passion.

Few Tips to keep the spark alive:

1. Everyone is different. Your partner might do what you do not like. Its okay if you fight with him for a couple of days and sometimes a week. But someone should come forward to resolve it. Let it be you also sometimes.

2. When you have major problems with your partner, think about your kids' future. At least for them, you need to keep the marriage life to move on.

3. Words can lie. Looks can deceive. But a touch has the potential to reveal the truth. So, do not mind to hold his hands, give him a hug or even a gentle touch. Do you think that it cannot melt your partner's heart? Sometimes when you cannot convince him with your words or looks, you can use the touch as your weapon. You will definitely conquer easily.

I would like to share a small story with you. Vishal and Meenu are a couple who got married after 5 years of love. They married after a lot of struggle but just after one month of their marriage, they got a small misunderstanding between them.

Vishal and Meenu stopped talking to each other. They don't even face them directly. Both of them are working. So, they both have no time to resolve the issue also. No one else is aware of their problem. They have the love but they did not have passion to reignite the spark. Vishal and Meenu had to attend a family friend's marriage. They went to attend the marriage. The time had come to take photographs. The wedding couple has compelled Vishal and Meenu to take photograph with them. Vishal went and stood with the bridegroom. Meenu stood near the bride. The photographer told that there is no liveliness in the face and the photo will not come good. He asked them to smile. They smiled but with no genuineness.

Photographer came to Vishal and pushed him near Meenu. "Go and stand there. Let's see whether you smile good", he said. He stood by compulsion but again with lack of passion. The photographer told that still it was not good. The bridegroom took the hand of Vishal and put around Meenu's neck. Can you guess what happened? The chemistry started working out and spark was reignited. They both had tears in their eyes due to happiness of being united again after a long time. They were not able to keep their fight alive after that minute. Both smiled nicely and the photographer finally took a perfect shot.

Bring back the touch and Have a Nice day!! I am signing off now. Bye.


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