Saturday 16 May 2015

Its Time for stress-free mom with Parachute Advansed Aromatherapy oil

Mommies never get easily satisfied with the well-being of their children. Right from her children's birth, she is completely stressed out even if her children are completely fine. They worry about them even when there is no matter to worry. She will not be satisfied even if you are 80 kilos in weight. You will look always thin in her eyes. "Why are you becoming so thin?", a standard question every mother asks her child.

Your age is not a matter for her. You are always a baby who does not know anything in this world according to her.

I quit my job for my child. I started blogging after that. I am completely stress-free from my previous IT job now. But my mom is not satisfied. She is thinking that I am working so hard for the blog. She tells me that I am stressing too much for blogging, not eating on time, not taking care of my health and sitting too much with the laptop.

"Mom, my friends are going to a full-time job even after delivery. They are managing both work and family. They have to be on-time to the office. But blogging is not like that. It is all me who needs to plan. There is nothing to get stressed here. I completely love this blogging journey. When you have love in what your are doing, there is no place for stress. Moreover, I am not compromising anything for blogging. I am doing it in my own convenient time and uses my free time only.", I told her 101 times. But she never gets convinced.

She wants me to be like her. "You are so lucky to get a hubby who tells to sit at home and relax. Why are you not relaxing your free time. You immediately switch on the laptop and open the blogger window.", she scolds me daily.

"Mom, please understand that I am perfectly fine and relaxed. Do not stress yourself by wrong assumption. It is not me who has to destress. Its you who has to be destressed.", I told her.

"No. But...", she started again. "Mom, come on. I think that it is high time for you to relax, unwind and de-stress. I am having something magical for you to help you come out of your stress.", I told her.

She laughed. "So, you are going to take care of all house-hold chores. Am I right?", she asked. "No mom. It is more than that. Here is the combination of 3 essential oils - Lavender, Rosemary & Bergamot. It is nothing but Parachute Advansed Aromatherapy oil. Let me massage you right now. Tell me how do you feel?", I told her. She told, "you are always winning me right from the day you born." and got ready for the massage.

Hope your mom is also having erratic schedules and emotional ups and downs. You can press the pause button and help your mom to take a moment for her and relax with Parachute Advansed Aromatherapy oil.




Note: I’m blogging about why my mother needs to de-stress with a Parachute Advansed Aromatherapy Oil massage for the #StressFreeMom activity at BlogAdda.

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Sunday 10 May 2015

#HappyHome is possible with #ShareTheLoad


Woman who never loves to go out:

If all the household chores have to be done by only woman, she loves to go out. She asks you to take her outside every weekend. She will enjoy having lunch outside as half of the work done. But if you share her load, she enjoys staying at home without any hassles. She loves her home and feels going out is a tedious process.

Woman who never hates to return back to home:

You are taking your wife and children to a movie in the evening. You are coming home back in dinner time. You and children sit in front of television and enjoying the cricket. Your wife has to enter into kitchen to prepare dinner as it is already late at least for the children. She will also feel tired like you. She will be sweating and doing all the work. She has to prepare other things too for her children who have to go to school next day. She would have started worrying about all these things even when you were returning. How good it will be if you can share some load with her? She will feel happy to finish things faster and to go to bed earlier like you.

Woman who loves to leave your children with you:

The day is Sunday and you are sitting in front of TV watching your favorite Sunday special programs. Your wife leaves your children with you to take care and going out to buy groceries. You tell your children not to disturb you. You never mind what your children are doing. They are spilling, scattering and making the house so untidy. She is coming back and seeing the whole house was untidy. Think how bad she feels and how much anger she gets. The reaction will be opposite if you take care of few of the household chores and involve your children too.

Woman who always has a smiling face:

You might think why your wife is always angry at you, why she is always scolding you, why she is always arguing with you, why she is always yelling at you after marriage. "You had a smiling face before marriage. That's why I wanted to marry you.", you might have told her. Have you ever thought about the reason? When all the household chores suddenly pushed to her alone, she started becoming negative and lose her smile.

Woman who cares her kids with patience:

Woman who has to do all the household chores easily lose their patience as they lose all their energy levels and stamina in doing the chores. One should have enough inner and physical energy to maintain patience. Woman whose load is shared enjoys the naughty of her kids. She loves to see how their kids enjoy at home. She will not lose her patience even if their kids scatter the toys all over the home.

Woman who never runs to her mom's home frequently:

There is no doubt that woman loves to stay at her mom's home. Of course, she gets an extraordinary care there which you might also give her. Also, her mom does not let her daughter to do any work there. She gets the opportunity to relax and she gets re-energized. At least to regain the energy which she lost by doing the household chores alone, she likes to visit her mom's home frequently. But if you are caring enough to share her load at your home itself, she will be equally happy to stay at her own home. She feels both homes as pleasant places to stay.

I am writing for the #ShareTheLoad activity at BlogAdda.com in association with Ariel.

A letter to my dear son

To my dear son,

You know how much successful me and your dad are in our life. The only secret ingredient for our tasty life is honesty. Yes, we love to be honest whatever situation it is.

Honesty will never let you fail:

You might feel afraid whether you will fail in something. Believe me, you will never fail if you are honest. Be it your personal life or your career, be honest. Honesty will cover you in all situations and your history will never have the word 'failure'.

Honesty will never let you step down:

The entire world is so busy in climbing up in life no matter whether the path is an honest one. Those who take the dishonest path are sure to come down in few days or month. But the people who take the honest path will never step down. 

Honesty will never let you become weaker:

People fail in their life when they feel weak. Whenever you think about your honesty, your energy level will get boosted automatically. You will feel more stronger and you will feel that all your problems are quite weak when compared with your strength. People who are dishonest will always feel weaker throughout their life even though they do not reveal it.

Honesty will never give you a bad name:

People might gain good name and fame so easily by cheating, lying or any other dishonest ways. But the truth will not hide for a longer time. Truth will come out one day. It might take its own time but it will come in the right time. The disaster will take place one it comes out. Everyone who praised them earlier will curse them even much more at that time. Be honest. Never think about gaining good name or reaching heights of fame. Do your work with honest. Everything else will come to your way.

Honesty will never let you feel coward:

If you are honesty enough, you do not need to feel afraid in any situation. People who are dishonest have to always feel coward. They always worry whether their real face and dishonest things will come out and make a disaster in their life. 

Let others be honest or not. Try to make them honesty. If you cannot change them, leave them till they learn the importance of honesty. But do not get influenced by their temporary success. Success of dishonest people is never permanent. Everything will vanish one day which are not made in an honesty way. So, be honest always and success is always yours. 

I am writing a letter about how a mother teaches honesty to her child with the Max Life Insurance i-genius #YoursHonestly activity in association with BlogAdda.


#YoursHonestly

Sundari.

My Mom is #MYFIRSTEXPERT

Mother is the most beautiful word in the world. She is the most person who is so adorable. She is the one which takes me in the right path always.

I am the one who always love to be a person who is a perfectionist in everything. Be it my personal or my professional life, I do everything with so much care that there should not be any flaws. I do not like to regret later and so I do everything perfectly. My mom always tells me that we should act ethically keeping the moral values in mind. She always wanted me as a person who always gets praised for the values. She tells me that we should always leave a good footprint in a way that no one can complain about us. She also asks me to be patient all the time and forget if someone does bad things to us.

I have been a girl who has a very good name in the society. People always appreciates me for my behavior and respect I show to others. But things changed when I got my first promotion in my career. My seniors were there waiting for the promotion but I was the one who got it even during recession period.

The other people became so jealous and angry on me. They started doing very bad things to me just to spoil my name. But my mom asked me to be patient and God would take care of everything. I kept patience whenever they acted with cunning mind. My mom told me to leave them to God and he would take care. She told me that we should not take any revenge. She insisted me that my value should not be lost by them. As she told, I left everything to God. They got into troubles by their poor work later and had to leave the organisation finally.

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