Sunday 10 May 2015

#HappyHome is possible with #ShareTheLoad


Woman who never loves to go out:

If all the household chores have to be done by only woman, she loves to go out. She asks you to take her outside every weekend. She will enjoy having lunch outside as half of the work done. But if you share her load, she enjoys staying at home without any hassles. She loves her home and feels going out is a tedious process.

Woman who never hates to return back to home:

You are taking your wife and children to a movie in the evening. You are coming home back in dinner time. You and children sit in front of television and enjoying the cricket. Your wife has to enter into kitchen to prepare dinner as it is already late at least for the children. She will also feel tired like you. She will be sweating and doing all the work. She has to prepare other things too for her children who have to go to school next day. She would have started worrying about all these things even when you were returning. How good it will be if you can share some load with her? She will feel happy to finish things faster and to go to bed earlier like you.

Woman who loves to leave your children with you:

The day is Sunday and you are sitting in front of TV watching your favorite Sunday special programs. Your wife leaves your children with you to take care and going out to buy groceries. You tell your children not to disturb you. You never mind what your children are doing. They are spilling, scattering and making the house so untidy. She is coming back and seeing the whole house was untidy. Think how bad she feels and how much anger she gets. The reaction will be opposite if you take care of few of the household chores and involve your children too.

Woman who always has a smiling face:

You might think why your wife is always angry at you, why she is always scolding you, why she is always arguing with you, why she is always yelling at you after marriage. "You had a smiling face before marriage. That's why I wanted to marry you.", you might have told her. Have you ever thought about the reason? When all the household chores suddenly pushed to her alone, she started becoming negative and lose her smile.

Woman who cares her kids with patience:

Woman who has to do all the household chores easily lose their patience as they lose all their energy levels and stamina in doing the chores. One should have enough inner and physical energy to maintain patience. Woman whose load is shared enjoys the naughty of her kids. She loves to see how their kids enjoy at home. She will not lose her patience even if their kids scatter the toys all over the home.

Woman who never runs to her mom's home frequently:

There is no doubt that woman loves to stay at her mom's home. Of course, she gets an extraordinary care there which you might also give her. Also, her mom does not let her daughter to do any work there. She gets the opportunity to relax and she gets re-energized. At least to regain the energy which she lost by doing the household chores alone, she likes to visit her mom's home frequently. But if you are caring enough to share her load at your home itself, she will be equally happy to stay at her own home. She feels both homes as pleasant places to stay.

I am writing for the #ShareTheLoad activity at BlogAdda.com in association with Ariel.

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